The Art of Hosting Guests: Tips and Tricks for a Successful Holiday Season
Megan DeslongchampsThe holiday season always brings a bit of stress for the person hosting family gatherings—believe me, I’ve been there! Even though you’re surrounded by people you know and appreciate, you want them to enjoy what you serve and have a good time, which is completely understandable! To avoid excessive stress, here are some simple ideas to make your life easier during the festivities!
Prepare the Space
You’ll feel much more confident in a clean and well-decorated space. Set aside a few hours before your guests arrive to prepare your home. Clean up, bring out decorations like centerpieces, the Christmas tree, and garlands, then dim the lights.
Also, take this opportunity to count your guests. How many seats do you need? You certainly don’t want anyone standing all evening! If necessary, add chairs around the table, such as the beautiful rattan chairs from the Balka collection, or stools around your kitchen island.
Set the Mood
Create a playlist and let it play on repeat throughout the evening. This way, you won’t have to worry about it! A bonus: music helps break the ice and avoid awkward silences. It might even inspire some to dance!
Pro Tip! Just before family and friends are there, bake some cookies or pour a bit of vanilla into an oven-safe bowl to create a cozy atmosphere throughout the house.
Offer Food and Drinks
Serving appetizers before the meal helps keep guests occupied while you finalize details, allows everyone to arrive at their own pace, and relaxes the atmosphere.
Channel your inner mixologist for the evening and whip up your best cocktails at your kitchen island. At South Shore Furniture, all our kitchen islands feature water-resistant melamine surfaces that can withstand spills!
Pro Tip! Prepare some snacks like veggies and dip, crackers, or charcuterie, and display them on your counter or buffet for easy access. This will reduce constant trips to the kitchen to serve everyone.
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Cook a Simple Dish
If you absolutely want to cook, choose a dish you know well and, if possible, one you can prepare part of in advance. This isn’t the time to reinvent the wheel! During the holidays, most people crave comforting, traditional dishes. Cut up ingredients and prepare your desserts the day before for greater peace of mind.
Alternatively, more and more families are opting for a potluck style, where everyone brings a dish to share either at the table or buffet-style.
Respect Dietary Preferences
A good host ensures they respect their guests' dietary restrictions. Make sure to ask family and friends in advance about any allergies, so you can adapt your meal accordingly. Don’t forget anyone! If you still want to prepare a dish that someone can’t eat, consider making something else for them or offering alternatives.
Be Yourself and Enjoy the Party!
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Remember that your guests come to see you and have a good time. Even if everything isn’t perfect, they will appreciate spending time with you. So, stay emotionally available despite your hosting duties. Your authenticity will make the moment feel more natural and warmer.
Hosting guests at home during the holiday season is an art that can be mastered! By following our tips for a successful gathering, you’ll be able to enjoy the moment without stress. The key: be well prepared!